It's not the 50s. There are options now. You can choose to be with someone who makes your life easier, not harder.
Newsflash: Abuse isn’t logical.
Jerkfaces aren’t logical. You can’t reason with them, because they aren’t reasonable. They see the world differently than we do. In their world, there are only winners and losers. And if they aren’t “winning,” as in one-upping you and making you cry, then guess what? They’re “losing.”